I am a pretty friendly person per se. I tend to have a smile on all the time, even when I am stressed that people only know me by my friendly side. But somehow I have seen a few people that have hated me from the first sight or from the first time they heard my name, for whatever unknown reason, only known to them! I wonder how one can do that? I know sometimes we dislike a person because of the negative energy the send. That makes me wonder if I am sending out any negative energy to this particular person.
It is interesting to me because there is a relative of mine who has hated me enough to affect my life in many different ways over the years. Every time I let go and try to move on, I discover something else that this person has done and I just cannot take it anymore! Now I have learnt to stand up over her and go, I am not going to get pulled down by you, ever!
Then it was a professor in my college, not sure why he hated me so much. It affected my grades!
I thought I got over all this, or so I thought when I met this person that I had to work with and he was making life hell for me. Later on, I heard from someone that he said “I don’t like her, I don’t want to see her face ever”. Jeez, what did I do to this guy for him to hate me like this? Thankfully he has moved to a different area and I don’t have to see him again!
I am yet to see someone that I have hated at first sight. I do not like people for the things that they have done to me, but never hate at first sight!
I wonder what makes people do that…